Why is Change So Hard?
We underestimate how we are creatures of habit. Change most often ends up being good, we cannot be afraid of change. Let’s think about some of the bigger changes in our lives and why we need to be adaptable.
Job Change – for years you have been perfecting your skill, and NOW you are asked to change. Note your skill might be the CEO of your family. Has your family grown, and your job no longer exists?
Relationship Change – do you feel that your identity is ending? There is a real sense of loss.
Financial Change – Increase or decrease in assets, both can bring significant change to your life.
Pushing Through
- Acknowledge endings
- Learn in a neutral zone
- Have a new beginning
Move into a Solution
A set process can remind you where you are. Change one item at a time, and tackle change in batches. Seek help setting up your process. Be kind to yourself.
If you do nothing, nothing is going to change.